The WDYB Method
Listen first → Ask better questions → Plant a seed → Point to Christ.
1) Listen First
Invite their story. “What do you believe about purpose, truth, or God?”
2) Clarify
“What do you mean by that?” “How did you come to that conclusion?”
3) Plant a Seed
Gently surface a tension: “Have you considered…?”
4) Point to Christ
Share the Gospel with grace. Invite further conversation.
Starter Questions
- What do you believe happens after we die?
- Do you think life has a purpose? If so, what is it?
- How do you decide what’s true or meaningful?
- Do you believe in any kind of God or higher power?
- Where do you think our sense of right and wrong comes from?
Values topics (family, sexuality, life issues) may arise naturally. When they do, we speak with grace and explain how our convictions flow from following Jesus.